Claire Rosemary writes about topics such as sexuality, religion, and femininity, often in relation to media. She also writes fiction, both literary and for the screen. Find her on Instagram and Twitter @_clairerosemary.
I realized I was asexual on Valentine’s Day 2020. My then boyfriend and I had recently agreed that our relationship wouldn’t work out and that it would be best to split on good terms. A month later, while I was…